other people.
When they begin a new relationship later in life, they may not want to lose their independence.
They may want companionship without feeling controlled.
They may want someone to travel with while still having the freedom to spend an afternoon with friends.
They may enjoy having dinner together but also enjoy separate hobbies.
Independence can make companionship more meaningful
There is an interesting paradox here.
When two people are capable of enjoying life independently, choosing to spend time together can feel more meaningful.
The message becomes:
“I don’t