and handles emotions maturely can create an environment in which a relationship feels good to be in.
And that may be one of the most important points.
People don’t simply fall in love with a list of qualities.
They fall in love with how they feel around another person.
Do they feel respected?
Do they feel appreciated?
Can they be themselves?
Can they laugh?
Can they talk honestly?
Can they disagree without fear?
Can they enjoy silence together?
Can they trust each other?
Can they imagine ordinary Tuesday mornings together—not
