when others are getting the spotlight. It’s not necessarily a personal attack, but rather a reflection of their struggle with their own self-worth. This question is often aimed at making you feel guilty for receiving attention or praise, hoping to shift the focus away from you and onto them.
What they really mean: “I don’t get the recognition or attention that you do, and I’m upset about it. Why do you get so much praise while I don’t?”
How to respond: Responding with empathy while maintaining your boundaries is key.
